The Big Book of Parenting Solutions: 101 Answers to Your Everyday Challenges and Wildest Worries
- ISBN13: 9780787988319
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Today show's Michele Borba's cures for difficult childhood behaviors In this down-to-earth guide, parenting expert Michele Borba offers advice for dealing with children's difficult behavior and hot button issues including biting, temper tantrums, cheating, bad friends, inappropriate clothing, sex, drugs, peer pressure, and much more. Written for parents of kids age 3-13, this book offers easy-to-implement advice for the most important challenges parents face with kids from toddlers to tweens.
- Includes immediate solutions to the most common childhood problems and challenges
- Written by Today Show's resident parenting expert Michele Borba
- Offers clear step-by-step guidance for solving difficult childhood behaviors and family conflicts
- Contains a wealth of advice that is easy-to-follow and gets quick results
- Author has written outstanding parenting books including Building Moral Intelligence, No More Misbehavin', Don't Give Me that Attitude, and more
Each of the 101 issues includes clear questions, specific step-by-step solutions, and advice that is age appropriate.
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In this down-to-earth guide, parenting expert Michele Borba offers advice for dealing with children's difficult behavior and hot button issues including biting, temper tantrums, cheating, bad friends, inappropriate clothing, sex, drugs, peer pressure, and much more. Written for parents of kids age 3-13, this book offers easy-to-implement advice for the most important challenges parents face with kids from toddlers to tweens.
- Includes immediate solutions to the most common childhood problems and challenges
- Written by Today Show's resident parenting expert Michele Borba
- Offers clear step-by-step guidance for solving difficult childhood behaviors and family conflicts
- Contains a wealth of advice that is easy-to-follow and gets quick results
- Author has written outstanding parenting books including Building Moral Intelligence, No More Misbehavin', Don't Give Me that Attitude, and more
Each of the 101 issues includes clear questions, specific step-by-step solutions, and advice that is age appropriate.
Top Ten Proven Parenting Solutions
Content from Dr. Michele Borba
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1. Get attention: Lower your voice almost to a whisper and then say your request. Kids aren’t used to a quiet request.
2. Increase positive behavior: Research shows that giving kids the right kind of praise (called “positive reinforcement”) is one of the best ways to shape new behavior. So, catch your kid doing the action you want. Just make sure your praise is specific and tells your child exactly what he did right. (Adding “because” or “that” takes your praise up a notch. “I’m so impressed that you started your homework all by yourself this time.”)
3. Stretch persistence: Praising the child’s effort (“You’re working so hard”) and not inherent intelligence (”You’re so smart”) is proven to enhance perseverance and performance, but the child is also more likely to bounce back from a mistake—all because he feels success is not mixed.
4. Reduce fear: Expose your child to a fear in small manageable doses and help them develop a statement to speak back to the worry (“Go away worry!” or “I can do this!”)
5. Curb a tantrum: The longer you give attention to a tantrum the longer it lasts. Ignore, ignore, ignore!
6. Nurture kindness: Encourage your child to use the Two Praise Rule everyday. “Say or do at least two kind things to someone.” Random acts of kindness really are catchy!
7. Increase assertiveness: Stress: “Look at the color of the talker’s eyes.” Using eye contact helps kids appear confident. Strong body posture also helps a child be less likely to be bullied.
8. Friendship builder: The two most commonly used traits of well-liked kids are “smiling” and “encouraging.” Reinforce those traits in your child to boost his friendship quotient.
9. Develop healthy eating habits. Eating relaxed family meals regularly enhances kids’ psychosocial well- being, boosts grades and deters behaviors like smoking and drinking and eating disorders as well as teaches the child healthy eating habits.
10. Curb nagging. Say "no" the first time and don’t back down. The average kid nags nine times knowing the parent will give in.
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The Big Book of Parenting Solutions: 101 Answers to Your Everyday Challenges and Wildest Worries
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This book is exactly what the title implies – BIG BOOK OF PARENTING SOLUTIONS! Dr. Michele Borba not only gives us detailed and proven suggestions (solutions), she talks our language. Her research is outstanding and helps you to be a better parent. From toddlers to teens, she has the answers. Like her other books, she puts her heart into the book, and you can feel the power you are gaining – power in better understanding our kids.
Whether you are an educator, parent, coach, therapist, daycare provider or psychologist – you must take time to read this book! It is large, but you can easily find your areas of interest – which there are many! From your child’s behavior ( that lovely attitude) to sibling rivalry – I don’t think this book missed a beat. I highly recommend it to anyone working with kids today!
Rating: 5 / 5
This big boog contains everything a new parent is going to need to know! It has everything from dealing with temper tantrums to picky eaters!
Rating: 5 / 5
Dr. Borba has given parents what we have been searching for…..the ultimate guide to every problem we face now and will face in the years ahead in the ongoing challenge of raising great kids. Dr. Borba’s book The Big Book of Parenting Solutions: 101 Answers to Your Everyday Challenges and Wildest Worries (Child Development) provides research based, practical solutions that are simple to do and provide real and lasting change. Today’s world presents so many new and frightening challenges to parents, but Dr. Borba provides not only tested and proven solutions, but a warm, caring and passionate advocate. Reading her books is like having a trusted friend and highly knowledgeable parenting expert right by your side as you encounter new challenges with your kids. This book is presented in a user-friendly style that makes it easy to find what you need right now and start creating lasting change in your child. There is no need anymore to have a library of parenting books….this book truly covers it all and when Michele Borba writes it, you KNOW it works! Bravo Dr. Borba!
Rating: 5 / 5
Raising kids today is like rafting a Class 5 river…it’s a lot of fun, very scary, and you never know what’s up ahead or just around the bend. Navigate with skill using Dr. Michele Borba’s wisdom, expert advice, experience, and well thought out answers in The Big Book of Parenting Solutions. It’s the only way to fully enjoy the ride! Dr. Borba is both brilliant and bold and says what she means! Reading her book is like hearing her speak. She is to the point and tells you how to get there. As the mother of three grown children, I can promise you that you will hold this book near and dear to your heart. I have read so many parenting books over the years and not one comes close to the support and clear direction that Dr. Borba’s book provides. Parents today don’t have time to take parenting classes but if you take the time to read this book slowly, you will find it is better than any class you could have taken! The Big Book of Parenting Solutions: 101 Answers to Your Everyday Challenges and Wildest Worries (Child Development)
Rating: 5 / 5
The BIG BOOK of Parenting Solutions by Michele Borba is a great reference book for people with children ages 3-13. It addresses 101 tough problems parents face and how to deal with them. The introduction is very helpful. It first covers the seven deadly parenting styles, then addresses change, and effective mechanisms for parenting for real and lasting change.
This book is very comprehensive, and thoroughly covers many topics: family, behavior, character, emotions, social scene, school, special needs, day to day, and electronics. Throughout the book, red flags are listed for most problems, and the changes to parent for, and the reasons to do it, are very clear. One of the things I most appreciate about this book is the emphasis placed on early intervention, because I believe that the sooner issues are addressed, the less likely it is for them to become bigger problems. Many times it is important to “dig deeper” to find the real root or underlying reasons for a problem because often these have to be addressed before the change can occur. The type of rapid response necessary, and how to develop habits for change are very well covered and insightful.
Of course one book, not even a book this big, could cover every aspect of raising children in full depth. Within many of the sections, more references are listed for acquiring additional information under “more helpful advice”, and the notes at the end of the book list many additional references.
Overall, this book does a great job of covering topics ranging from “smaller” types of parenting problems (disorganized, indecisive, tattles, whining, etc.) to very major issues (autism spectrum disorder, depression, attention deficit, etc.) in a clear and organized way. I highly recommend it; it really may be the only parenting book you ever need.
Rating: 4 / 5